(A)ccepting complements, negative moments, and not punishing is kindness. (B)eing kind by letting people, life, and the mind be as they are. (C)aring with kindness for yourself and others instead of improving/curing. The talk was an offering for the Theravadin Forest Tradition Bhikhunis residing in Dhammadharini Vihara in Santa Rose, CA, USA during Feb 15-24, 2015. To help build dhamma, by contributing money to the temple as a place of practice, go to https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/support-feminine-wisdom-in-buddhism#/
This is a teaching he gave in Sydney at the Roselea Community Centre on 2010-05-03.